Responding to Doubts with Counterquestions
Structure of the Counterquestions
Using the Counterquestions to Map Intuition
Related Structures and Open Questions
Steve Raiff: Does the system under question answer the Meta
Questions, or simply re-ask or relate to the questions? Specifically,
I'm trying to determine how to assign the "it" in two of the questions.
The system re-asks the counterquestions. In other words, each counterquestion makes resonate a different principle of the system. Each counterquestion helps us appreciate the perspective and situation of the corresponding principle. They should make us experience the principles fully, rather than manipulate them mechanically.
Steve Raiff: Once the meta Q's are answered or related, how are they assigned to locations on the dual-sided relational map? The lines between the points connected on different sides of the relation map are labeled with the system being categorized.
I've drawn a diagram of the counterquestions.
I draw the diagram has having four levels, (as given by the foursome),
which I denote God, person in general, person in particular, world.
I place the points of view on the left, and the situations on the right
(these are the two representations of
the foursome). The points of view are those of God, person
in general, and person in particular (the point of view of the world is
null). The situations are those of person in general, person in particular,
and world (the situation of God is null). The counterquestions give
the various ways of placing a point of view in a situation. All evidence
suggests that the point of view and the situation need to be from different
levels. This yields seven counterquestions as follows:
Counterquestion | Point of view | Situation |
How does it seem to me? | Person in particular | World |
What else should I be doing? | Person in general | World |
Would it make any difference? | Person in general | Person in particular |
What do I have control over? | God | Person in general |
Am I able to consider the question? | God | Person in particular |
Is this the way things should be? | God | World |
Am I doing anything about this? | Person in particular | Person in general |
Principles of Nonviolent Engagement | Underlying Counterquestions |
Be straightforward. Tell them what you think the issue is, and what you intend to do. | How does it seem to me? |
Be thorough. Don't rush or skip steps. Keep involving all relevant parties, the neighbors, the police. | What else should I be doing? |
Be vulnerable. Acknowledge that you have something at stake that you may lose. | Would it make any difference? |
Avoid victory. Let them have the last word. Wish good things for them. | What do I have control over? |
Seek clarification. Let them teach you. Never assume, always ask, and take up what they say, no matter how ludicrous. | Am I able to consider the question? |
Stick to your principles. Stand firm on principles you agree to suffer for. | Is this the way things should be? |
Have something to share. Show a friendly attitude, share in theirs. | Am I doing anything about this? |
Steps in Problem Solving | Underlying Counterquestions |
2. Define the Problem | How does it seem to me? |
3. Plan the Solution | What else should I be doing? |
4. Create the Solution | Would it make any difference? |
5. Design the Solution | What do I have control over? |
6. Compare the Solution | Am I able to consider the question? |
1. Identify the Problem | Is this the way things should be? |
7. Implement the Solution | Am I doing anything about this? |
Intuitive Principles | Underlying Counterquestions |
Red hat | How does it seem to me? |
Yellow hat | What else should I be doing? |
White hat | Would it make any difference? |
Blue hat | What do I have control over? |
Green hat | Am I able to consider the question? |
Black hat | Is this the way things should be? |
[Purple hat - added by Steve Raiff] | Am I doing anything about this? |
Analysis using the counterquestions suggests that Edward de Bono's thinking
hats give the various ways of exploring cognitive systems, as shown below:
The kinds of prayer | Underlying Counterquestions |
Guidance | How does it seem to me? |
Confession | What else should I be doing? |
Help | Would it make any difference? |
Challenge | What do I have control over? |
Praise | Am I able to consider the question? |
Worship | Is this the way things should be? |
Petition | Am I doing anything about this? |
Antitheses | Underlying Counterquestions |
Mt 5, 27-30 ...everyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adulterly with her in his heart... | How does it seem to me? |
Mt 5, 21-26 ...if you bring your gift to the altar, and there recall that you brother has anything against you, leave your gift there at the altar, go first and be reconciled with your brother... | What else should I be doing? |
Mt 5, 43-48 ...For if you love those who love you, what recompense will you have? Do not the tax collectors do the same?... | Would it make any difference? |
Mt 5, 33-37 ...Do not swear by your head, for you cannot make a single hair white or black... | What do I have control over? |
Mt 5, 38-42 ...I say to you, offer no resistance to one who is evil... | Am I able to consider the question? |
Mt 5, 31-32 ...whoever divorces his wife... ...causes her to commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery... (Mt 19, 1-12 ...because of the hardness of your hearts Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but in the beginning it was not so...) | Is this the way things should be? |
Am I doing anything about this? |
Bill Gothard sees youth conflict as resulting when youths take up a limited perspective in life, rather than God's perspective.
I think his Basic Life Principles can be seen as metaprinciples, ways
of strengthening principles.
Youth Conflicts [taken from http://www.iblp.org/seminars/index.asp] | Basic Life Principles [paraphrased] | Underlying Counterquestions |
6. Bondage to destructive and impure habits. | 6. Freedom: Exercising my conscience to discern between good and evil and overcoming the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life. | How does it seem to me? |
3. Guilt from violations of conscience. | 3. Responsibility: Account for my every thought, word, action, and motive, and ask forgiveness of those I offend. | What else should I be doing? |
5. Anger over rights that were violated. | 5. Ownership: Realize that all that I have has come from God. I need to use my resources wisely for God's purposes. | Would it make any difference? |
1. Rejection of unchangeable physical features. | 1. Design: Understand that inward character is more valuable than outward appearances or circumstances in seeking happiness. Accept unchangeable physical or family features as motivations to develop positive character qualities. | What do I have control over? |
4. Bitterness over being offended or hurt by others. | 4. Suffering: Distinguish the various kinds of suffering, forgive others and benefit from their offences. | Am I able to consider the question? |
2. Conflicts with God-ordained authoritites. | 2. Authority: Honor the responsibilities of parents and other authorities. Learn how God works through others to provide me direction and protection. Also, never obey instruction to do anything morally wrong. | Is this the way things should be? |
7. Lack of purpose and direction in life. | 7. Success: Engrafting Scripture into my heart and mind so that I can use it to make wise decisions and understand God's direction for my future. | Am I doing anything about this? |